FASHIONPHIA

September 04, 2011

Today I'm gonna talk a bit. And hopefully my english is good enough for this, haha. I want to talk about confidence in clothing. You shouldn't think, that I'm as confident as it may sound. It's also a little bit self-motivation for me. School starts on wednesday and I think school is the hardest way to show yourself if you aren't like "the famous person". Self-Confidence is really important for everyone of us. If we aren't happy with ourselves, we look less self-confident. And I think we all know this sentence: We shouldn't care about what the others think. And that's totally true. Because we don't know what they think and we won't ask them, because it is unnecessary to ask. If you feel good, it's all right. If you feel unconfident, you should change something. But you should never ever feel unconfident, because other girls look at you. Or strangers look at you. I know this feeling when you walk around and a lot of people look at you like you are "an alien". And that's just because they are different. Everyone has their own style, but there is one style, which everyone knows. The jeans and the t-shirt. I want to give you an example: On my school a lot of girls are following mainstream. And I don't want to say that there are no fashionable girls and boys on my school. There are! But most of the pupil wear the same things. And if you are a little little bit different, you get noticed. That doesn't always mean you get noticed in a bad way. Some people may adore your style and that is why they look at you. You fall on, because you're different. But that is good. Imagine everyone would look the same and wear the same clothes. What a boring earth! It really doesn't matter what the others think and say about your clothes. The only thing that counts is that you like it. If they don't like it or if they laugh: Just take it back. Another point: You won't ever see these people again. The girls in school are not your friends. When you finished school, you'll never see them again. Or strangers on the street. So just don't care about it. Wear what you like, buy what you like and be who you are and not what the others want you to be. In my opinion I don't want to be one of those boring people who just go with the rest. I had a time where I've been trying to integrate myself. I wore blue jeans and a simple top with sneakers. I felt boring, I didn't feel like I was myself. You should never change yourself to look or be like the others. The best thing you can have is a friend that has the same interests in clothes and a unique style or a friend who accepts you JUST LIKE YOU ARE! Be yourself, it's your life. And we just live once. You can choose what you do, wear, like, hate, dream, buy, eat, say, love and are!